Her Special Love

She grew up in Philadelphia, the daughter of an Italian father and Irish mother.  A capable, independent, and talented young woman. His United States Navy ship came into port in Philadelphia, and a friend introduced them.  It wasn’t long before he asked her to write letters to him after his ship left port.  They were later married and enjoyed decades…

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A Surprise

I have had the flu twice in the six weeks since my dad drew his last breath.  I rarely get sick.  In both of these cases, I was really sick. I suspect my body is decompressing from the time I spent pouring myself into managing my dad’s care and caring for him.   It seems that much of society would look…

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Dementia and Falling

Sharing a few thoughts around falls & dementia. I'd love for you to take a listen as I share some observations & tips from my background as an Occupational Therapist! #falls #OccupationalTherapy #aging #dementiacare #dementiatips #dementiasupportive #eldersupportive #caregiver #risk #livingfully https://www.instagram.com/p/DL-mbo2PlTn/

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Grief

To the outside world, I appear A-OK.  And I really am okay.  But what is going on inside is a sort of confusion, an unsettled frustration, as I try to reconcile the loss of my dad. In one regard, I fear grief because it is unpredictable and hits at random times.  But most of me is just trying to relax…

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The lessons she taught us

If you’ve ever ridden the Fort Collins City Park train, you may have met our friend. We loved hearing her stories of how she taught the kids to remain seated for the whole ride, and raise their arms and wiggle their fingers when they went through the tunnel. We loved hearing about how she began helping kids have their birthday…

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