Giving Ourselves to Caregiving

I have had the flu twice in the six weeks since my dad drew his last breath.  I rarely get sick.  In both of these cases, I was really sick. I suspect my body is decompressing from the time I spent pouring myself into managing my dad’s care and caring for him.   It seems that much of society would look at this…

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My Dad: Reflections

My dad taught me how to run, and he taught me how to walk steady.He showed me what stamina and courage look like and that maybe it’s good to bow out every now and then.He showed me that it is okay to embrace second chances and that there is a reason there is an eraser at the end of a…

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We Can’t Fix Everything

Every time I have the privilege of spending time with someone experiencing dementia and spending time with their family, I learn valuable lessons.  Sometimes, what I learn teaches me that human needs don’t change just because someone’s cognitive skills change.  Sometimes, I learn that every family has its complexities and particular dynamics, and as I provide coaching and training in…

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My Dad’s Passing

My dad drew his last breath a week and a half ago.  If you have read this blog for a while, you have read that he was experiencing advancing dementia and I had the honor of managing his care and helping provide his care. My dad was one of the good ones.  I’ll post more details following his memorial service…

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