The Power of Prestige

Prestige: n. “the respect and admiration that someone gets for being successful or important” My guess is that most folks would not say that they have earned the term “prestige”.  We might think of this term attached to the notion of notoriety or fame or power.  But per Merriam Webster, it is more simple than that. Every person wishes to…

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A Tribute to Bob

Two and a half weeks ago, Bob and his wife and I went for a walk in their neighborhood.  It was a lovely Colorado day with sunny skies and clear air.  We walked to their neighbor’s rock, which is Bob’s favorite spot to sit and rest.  We all sat and rested and chatted a bit before heading home.  Bob stopped…

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The Power in a Purr-ito

Colorado State Senator Joann Ginal and a purr-ito named Cheese I wish I had a way to show everyone what happens when you put a kitten, wrapped in their soft blanket “purr-ito”, into the arms of a person with dementia. You see, when we bring appropriate sensory and social stimulation into the day’s experience of someone with dementia, we give…

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Dementia Mainstreamed

In the 1980’s, the United States education system transitioned from the common practice of institutionalizing children with disabilities, to “mainstreaming” It seems that the goal was “inclusion”; helping children with disabilities be included and welcomed among fellow students who did not have disabilities, and helping students without disabilities become comfortable with kids with disabilities.  I suppose that the idea was…

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Life Lessons Beyond Kindergarten

I am very grateful for the valuable life lessons shared with me in my young years. These childhood lessons that form character have a powerful impact, and build a foundation in our lives. Young hearts and minds are the perfect training ground to learn about generosity, respect for others, responsibility, honesty, compassion, the importance of good work and good play,…

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“Hear Me Please:”

I don’t have dementia.  But I have the privilege of spending a lot of time with people who do.  And if they had the ability to articulate their thoughts and feelings, my observation is they would tell us this: “Expect me to forget.  In other words, please don’t react with disappointment or frustration or worry when I forget that I…

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When We Become the Dial

It’s no fun when our friends with dementia get upset and we aren’t able to help.  No fun for them especially, and no fun for us. They might get upset because they’ve heard a loud noise, or because their toenails are too long and painful and someone puts on their shoes, or because they all of a sudden can no…

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Caregiving by Stealth

Dire Straits.  Many will remember the British rock band by that name that became popular in the late 1970’s.  Others will be familiar with the term “dire straits” and know not only that it means “extreme distress”, but also know what it feels like to be in dire straits.  That level of distress is often what it takes for most…

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Driving Matters

Imagine, as the reader of this post, that you realize you need a few items from the grocery store for dinner.  So you make a list, put on your coat, grab your wallet, the keys, and “Oh wait!  I don’t drive anymore.  Now let me think.  How am I going to get to the grocery store now?  Hmm.  Well, I’ll…

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