A Missing Piece in Dementia

I knew that when I entered my friend’s door, I would need to sit, face her so that when she looked my way, our eyes would meet, and patiently and attentively listen.  I knew that my response would have to feel to her as if I agreed with her negative comments about her son.  She needed validation, empathy, and for…

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Dementia and Falling

Sharing a few thoughts around falls & dementia. I'd love for you to take a listen as I share some observations & tips from my background as an Occupational Therapist! #falls #OccupationalTherapy #aging #dementiacare #dementiatips #dementiasupportive #eldersupportive #caregiver #risk #livingfully https://www.instagram.com/p/DL-mbo2PlTn/

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Father’s Day 2025

This morning, I will go for a gentle three-mile run. And I will think of my dad. I began my running career with my dad when I was thirteen years old. It’s been over four decades since then, and I still run. Not as far and not as fast, but I am filled with gratitude that I am still able…

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Getting To Know My Dad

I remembered, “Oh yeah, he is responding positively to me joking with him and gently kidding him because that is how he so often related to me and my kids.”  That was a fun revelation because now we smile and laugh when I act like him with my playful antics.

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Creating Rich Sensory and Social Experiences for Those Experiencing Dementia pt 10: Embracing Whimsy and Fun

At Better People Care, we encourage whimsy and pure fun, often inspired by the creativity of our caregivers. Try something spontaneous—go bowling, take a bike ride, or make it a tradition to get ice cream every week during the summer. (If you’re lactose intolerant, treat yourself to a refreshing drink so you can enjoy something together.)

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Creating Rich Sensory and Social Experiences for Those Experiencing Dementia Pt. 3

Creating Rich Sensory and Social Experiences for Those Experiencing Dementia Part 3: Life-Changing Experiences As you begin to share these rich and engaging experiences with your loved one, take note of how the experiences impact you as well. You might be surprised at the positive effects on your own mood and stress levels.  Getting good at this is part of…

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