This time of year, many families ask me if they should decorate their loved one’s home if they are experiencing dementia. My advice is it’s best to follow their lead. Check out the video for more! https://www.instagram.com/p/DR7qUSEgn4L/
Loss isn't the whole story. Sometimes we can get stuck focusing on the loss in Dementia (the loss of cognitive function), but there are so many strengths we should notice too! The DAWN Method taught me how to switch that perspective to lean into the strengths of our friends experiencing Dementia. https://www.instagram.com/p/DRSaHFlCa8S/
We called him Mr. Charming. Even in his last days, he would have moments where he would stop and compliment someone on their pretty sweater or nice shirt, with his sideways smile and attentive eyes. He loved to share stories about his days as a Colorado A&M University football player and his time with the National Forest Service. He was…
I knew that when I entered my friend’s door, I would need to sit, face her so that when she looked my way, our eyes would meet, and patiently and attentively listen. I knew that my response would have to feel to her as if I agreed with her negative comments about her son. She needed validation, empathy, and for…
I have had the flu twice in the six weeks since my dad drew his last breath. I rarely get sick. In both of these cases, I was really sick. I suspect my body is decompressing from the time I spent pouring myself into managing my dad’s care and caring for him. It seems that much of society would look…
As we continue our series on maximizing safety and well-being to help our loved ones live at home longer, we're talking about bedroom safety. First, it is important that we tuck in the edge of the comforter so that there are no ends dragging on the floor - as that can increase the risk of falling. The second is the…
Choosing chairs with armrests offers extra support for safe sitting and standing, and adding tennis balls to the chair legs makes moving chairs easier and reduces the risk of falls. Simple changes have a big impact! Check out the video below and follow along with this series for more tips to create a safe and comfortable home for those with…
I've been a DAWN Specialist for many years as I lead my team at Better People Care. Now, I am caring for my dad, who is experiencing advanced dementia. It is tough watching him fade as he approaches the end of life. We've had a peaceable journey thanks to the DAWN method, and I'm so grateful that it has been…
I coach and train a lot of families in how to care for their loved ones experiencing dementia using the DAWN Method. I always include the DAWN message that dementia is the season when expressing respect, admiration, and love are ways we give our loved ones a sense of well-being.
Smell is a powerful sense that can evoke memories and emotions. Take your loved one to a candle shop and explore the various scents together. However, remember that some individuals with dementia may have lost their sense of smell. For those who have, focus on other sensory experiences.
