Sharing Stories

It is a misunderstanding that we necessarily lose our loved ones to dementia before they die.  We can keep a close, soul-to-soul relationship with our companions by memorizing their stories and being ready to share them back with them when they become unable to.  Those stories often will include us as family and friends. 

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Creating Rich Sensory and Social Experiences for Those Experiencing Dementia pt 10: Embracing Whimsy and Fun

At Better People Care, we encourage whimsy and pure fun, often inspired by the creativity of our caregivers. Try something spontaneous—go bowling, take a bike ride, or make it a tradition to get ice cream every week during the summer. (If you’re lactose intolerant, treat yourself to a refreshing drink so you can enjoy something together.)

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The Art of Noticing

Creating Rich Sensory and Social Experiences for Those Experiencing Dementia - Part 8: Noticing As we continue to explore options for creating sensory and social experiences for our loved ones experiencing dementia, let's get back to the art of noticing.  If your loved one was a pilot or farmer, they probably have spent most of their lives noticing the clouds.…

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Our Brave Friend

When I heard our friend had breathed her last breath, the first words that came to my mind were, “She was brave.”  I have never before described one of my companions experiencing dementia as “brave,” though all of them have been.

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Remembering Our Friend

He was dignified, intelligent, personable, and had an easy laugh.  Yes, he was having a harder time remembering and doing some of the simple tasks of life that were once very easy.  But with the right kind of dementia-understanding, dementia-supportive help (The DAWN Method), he retained his personality… dignity… intelligence… personable ways, and easy laugh. He enjoyed visiting and talking…

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