A Surprise

I have had the flu twice in the six weeks since my dad drew his last breath.  I rarely get sick.  In both of these cases, I was really sick. I suspect my body is decompressing from the time I spent pouring myself into managing my dad’s care and caring for him.   It seems that much of society would look…

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Dementia and Falling

Sharing a few thoughts around falls & dementia. I'd love for you to take a listen as I share some observations & tips from my background as an Occupational Therapist! #falls #OccupationalTherapy #aging #dementiacare #dementiatips #dementiasupportive #eldersupportive #caregiver #risk #livingfully https://www.instagram.com/p/DL-mbo2PlTn/

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Grief

To the outside world, I appear A-OK.  And I really am okay.  But what is going on inside is a sort of confusion, an unsettled frustration, as I try to reconcile the loss of my dad. In one regard, I fear grief because it is unpredictable and hits at random times.  But most of me is just trying to relax…

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Father’s Day 2025

This morning, I will go for a gentle three-mile run. And I will think of my dad. I began my running career with my dad when I was thirteen years old. It’s been over four decades since then, and I still run. Not as far and not as fast, but I am filled with gratitude that I am still able…

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Thank you, DAWN

I've been a DAWN Specialist for many years as I lead my team at Better People Care. Now, I am caring for my dad, who is experiencing advanced dementia. It is tough watching him fade as he approaches the end of life. We've had a peaceable journey thanks to the DAWN method, and I'm so grateful that it has been…

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