The Eraser At The End of the Pencil

I made a big mistake with one of my companions with dementia recently.  I made a decision that left them feeling uncomfortable, and insecure in my presence.  It wasn’t obvious at first, but their responses later in the week made it clear that my decision had eroded trust. It’s not the first time I’ve made mistakes when providing dementia care. …

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Women, Take Note

No one asks to get dementia.  And all of us hope to do what we can to prevent it.  But before I dive into how we as women can reduce our risk of developing dementia, I must first speak out that there is hope in dementia.  I’ve watched it.  I’ve lived it.  The truth that when we handle correctly the…

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Better Care is in the Details

My Mom taught me hard work and duty to family. She grew up poor with seven siblings and minimal education, married at 22, and had me at 23. She showed me what sacrifice looked like when she and my dad moved our family from Taiwan to Texas to build a better life for me and my brother because we both…

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Driving Matters

Imagine, as the reader of this post, that you realize you need a few items from the grocery store for dinner.  So you make a list, put on your coat, grab your wallet, the keys, and “Oh wait!  I don’t drive anymore.  Now let me think.  How am I going to get to the grocery store now?  Hmm.  Well, I’ll…

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