Don’t Buy New Shoes!

If you are thinking of buying new shoes for your loved one who is older and living with dementia, don’t! I know that we want to do nice things for our loved ones, and we want to feel like we are taking good care of them.  But new shoes are not the best idea. Our feet are so incredibly important…

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How Dementia Heals Us

There is hope, and there is beauty in dementia.  Turns out there is also healing.  Don’t stop reading now because you do not believe me.  I’ll try to explain how in the world I could be saying that something as unordinary as dementia could heal us. If you’re still reading, please stop what you are doing and listen to this:…

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Toenails, Teeth, and Ears, Oh My!

I am a big fan of comfort care once someone with dementia is needing regular support, supervision, and guidance.  I see a lot of folks with advanced dementia being put through doctor’s appointments, procedures, tests, that they are no longer able to understand and that bring considerable discomfort to their days.   I teach families that we should use the concept…

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